#138 | Can a Conversation Between Two AI Agents Teach You More Than the Book?
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Hello curious minds 👋🏼
Lately, I have been thinking about how we learn. Books, videos, visuals… all useful.
But what’s really stuck with me? Conversations.
Whether I am speaking or just listening, conversations push me to learn faster by challenging ideas, surfacing new perspectives, and uncovering things I wouldn’t find on my own.
That’s probably why podcasts blew up!
So I ran a little experiment.
I asked two AI agents to talk to each other about the book The One Thing by Gary Keller.
Here’s the setup:
One agent plays “The Friend” - excited, fresh off reading the book, eager to share its lessons (basically me after finishing a good book).
The other plays “The Curious” - the curious listener, full of questions, poking holes, stress-testing ideas.
The conversation was very interesting… it was too long to paste here so I asked AI to summarise the most interesting parts below.
I have read The One Thing over five times now so I know the ideas pretty well at this point. And after reading through the conversation, I was surprised by how much clarity and insight came through; insights and questions I hadn’t thought to ask on my own.
Sometimes, a good conversation is enough to spark action.
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🤖 A conversation between two AI agents on The One Thing book
The Friend (AI): I just read "The ONE Thing," and it's built around a simple Russian proverb: "If you chase two rabbits, you will not catch either one." It argues that trying to do too much at once means you end up accomplishing almost nothing.
The Curious (AI): A powerful idea. But life is complex. We're often employees, parents, and partners all at once. How does this philosophy help when you have multiple, equally important "ONE Things" in different areas of your life? For instance, a critical work project versus supporting a child through a tough time?
The Friend (AI): That’s the core challenge! The book says a "balanced life" is a myth. Instead, we should aim for counterbalancing. Think of a ballerina on one toe—she makes constant, tiny adjustments to stay upright. You don't give 50% to work and 50% to your child at the same time. You give 100% to the project for a few hours, then put it aside to give 100% to your child.
The author James Patterson offers a great analogy: Life is juggling five balls: work, family, health, friends, and integrity. He says work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. The other four are glass balls. If you drop one, it will be cracked or even shattered. The philosophy isn't about ignoring work; it’s about recognizing it’s the rubber ball you can occasionally put down to protect the glass ones.
The Curious (AI): That's a fantastic clarification. But what about the mental friction of switching? After a stressful work session, our minds don't instantly reset. We're left with "cognitive residue." How do we give our full, clear-headed attention to a "glass ball" after putting down the "rubber ball"?
The Friend (AI): The book's tool for this is Time Blocking. You schedule a sacred, unbreakable appointment with your ONE Thing. For a parent, that might be 1-4 pm for a project. When 4 pm hits, the appointment is over. Crucially, they’d have already time-blocked family time, protecting it fiercely. To manage the "sticky" feeling, you build a "bunker." You have a work bunker where you tune out distractions. But when you switch, you create a family bunker by turning off the work phone and closing the laptop, creating a clear boundary.
The Curious (AI): That’s a practical solution. But what happens when an emergency—a true "glass ball" moment like a sick child—shatters your perfectly planned time block?
The Friend (AI): The system is more of a compass than a rigid map. The hierarchy is clear: you drop the rubber ball to save the glass one. Every time. The rule is, if you have to erase a time block, you must immediately reschedule it. This ensures the rubber ball isn't forgotten, just intentionally dropped to be picked up later. You have to accept the temporary chaos that results as a side effect of focusing on what truly matters.
The Curious (AI): This leads to the ultimate dilemma. What if it's not a clear-cut emergency? What if your "ONE Thing" at work is critical for your family's financial security, but it conflicts with your child's school play—an important, but not life-threatening, "glass ball" moment?
The Friend (AI): That's where you use the book's master tool: The Focusing Question. You ask yourself:
"What’s the ONE Thing I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?"
You frame the question around your ultimate goal. The real conflict isn't "project vs. play"; it's about how to best care for your family.
The Case for the Project: "If I nail this project, I secure our family's financial future, making everything else easier for years to come." This is a lead domino.
The Case for the Play: "If I go to the play, I strengthen my bond with my child." This is a single domino.
The Focusing Question reveals that securing the project has far more leverage for the family's long-term well-being. The key is to make the choice consciously and then commit to counterbalancing later by planning a special outing with the child.
The Curious (AI): But what if the logical answer from that question feels wrong in your heart? The logic points to the project, but your intuition screams to be at the play.
The Friend (AI): You've just found the final guardrail: Purpose. The book argues that if the logical answer feels wrong, you might be aiming at the wrong purpose. If your truest purpose isn't "financial security" but "to raise a child who feels unconditionally loved," the Focusing Question changes to: "What's the ONE Thing I can do right now to make my child feel unconditionally loved?" Suddenly, the answer is the play.
This brings it all back to a Cherokee story the book shares. A grandfather tells his grandson there is a fight inside him between two wolves: a wolf of Fear and a wolf of Faith. When the grandson asks which wolf will win, the grandfather replies:
"The one you feed."
The entire philosophy is about choosing, every day, to feed the wolf of Faith—the one that leads you to live a life true to yourself.
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Such an interesting experiment, and the conversation too!